Showing posts with label culture. Show all posts
Showing posts with label culture. Show all posts

Monday, 1 January 2018

3 Reasons Why So Many Hate The Last Jedi

The Last Jedi is creating waves – critics loved it, but fans are more divided than ever (note major spoiler alerts ahead). People have queued up to criticise the plot holes – Snoke’s early demise after so much hype; the seemingly pointless casino side-story; the strange morphing of Luke from perhaps the only male hero of the series to a crazy, spoilt fool, the poor humour, and so on (see a summary of fans’ biggest complaints). But I think the real reasons run deeper than all of this.

Most mainstream films comprise certain key threads, such as a world cloaked in meaning and purpose within a bigger story of good vs evil, or a hero who saves the day. If you are a Christian you might note that the narrative arc of so many films mirrors that which we see in the Christian worldview - the most epic Story of all, of creation, fall and redemption through Jesus Christ.

Christian or not, all of us have a worldview - a set of beliefs and assumptions that we use when interpreting the world around us. And it is when these fundamental assumptions come into conflict, or are exposed as inconsistent, that things get interesting. 

Here are three worldview themes that The Last Jedi has tampered with, and why they might affect how many have received this film.


1.       History 

Kylo Ren to Rey: ‘Let the past die; kill it if you have to. That’s the only way to become who you were meant to be’ and ‘We are weak when we need others, when we search for meaning in others…’

Yoda to Luke: ‘…look past a pile of old books…read them have you?...Wisdom they held, but nothing that girl Rey already possesses…’

A pervasive theme in The Last Jedi is that the past doesn’t matter. It doesn’t matter who Rey’s parents were; it doesn’t matter what Luke did in the past; it doesn’t matter if the ancient Jedi texts are destroyed.

Why?

Because the past can restrict you. If the Force is only for the Jedi, then ‘ordinary mortals’ won’t grasp that they too can harness its power. If we are constrained by our genes, our biology, then we won’t live out our potential to grow beyond the shackles of the past.

Director Rian Johnson has ingeniously tapped into a central doctrine of our culture – that we are defined by what is inside us. Not by our lineage. Not by our ‘externally imposed’ gender identity. Not by oppressive religious structures or ancient texts.

And yet, deep down, there is a conflict at the heart of Star Wars. The build up to the back-story of Rey and of Snoke from The Force Awakens were cast aside with a few brandishes of a lightsaber. The tension in the cast (and now among fans) seems palpable. But why this tension? Because it mirrors our reality. Deep down we know that history does matter. Where we have come from is important. The Last Jedi goes against the Star Wars grain here. A pre-episode VIII Christianity Today article, commenting on how Lucas started with Episode IV rather than I, sums it up:

‘By dropping us into the middle of the action from the start, Lucas made us feel like more must be out there somewhere, languishing in some back closet, the untold story that might have something to do with us…There is something deeply religious about this tradition, this recovering of history—something we tend to forget, but that’s buried in our subconscious.
It seems to me that we live in a world more alive to religious questions than it has been in decades—but also one more stripped of historical memory. I wonder, perhaps, if the Star Wars saga, dropping us into the center of the story and then stringing the story along for decades in both our universe and theirs, reinvigorates in us the deeply religious need for a sense of belonging: not just to a group of the living, but to those who’ve come before us, and will come after.’ 

2.       Purpose

Kylo Ren to Rey – “You come from nothing…you have no place in this story…you are nothing. But not to me!”

The Last Jedi powerfully portrays how mere mortals can be the heroes. Rey’s parents are lowly junk scavengers. But it doesn’t matter - she can be special. She needs to learn to control and then reach out with her feelings to be all she wants to be.

This is again the wisdom of our age – you can do it! You have the power – in your home, phone, or even in your head. There is no such thing as an anointed hero. Just search for the hero inside yourself.

But again, there is tension here, and by the end even The Last Jedi can’t get away from the fact that perhaps Rey is a bit special after all, and that we long for heroes like her who will save the rest of us.

But why? Could it be because we are so rooted in a bigger story as outlined by the Christian worldview? A worldview that says we are somebody - created perfect, but disfigured and misguided. We have become, like Rey, as ‘nothing’ – nothing that would commend us as being worthy of special attention. But we have been called to a special purpose. Like Rey, we haven’t asked for this. But unlike Rey, our purpose isn’t contingent on what we DO, rather than what Jesus has DONE for us. 

3.       Reality

In Revenge of the Sith, one character says, "Only SIths (dark Jedi) deal in absolutes."
In Return of the Jedi, Obi-Wan states, “Many of the truths we cling to depend on our point of view.” Prior to this, he justifies a lie by stating, “What I told you was true, from a certain point of view.”

If the Force is all one, permeating everything, then there is no room for actual evil or actual good. Good and evil are part of the same whole, which means that ethics simply degenerate to relativism –no truth is absolute.

What is interesting is not that this worldview persists in The Last Jedi – it most certainly does – but that the reaction to it seems to be stronger, as if the tension between the two worldviews is at breaking point.

Whilst on board with Finn and Rose, Benicio del Toro’s character DJ explains why he deals with both The Resistance and The First Order - ‘Live free. Don’t join’ he says (and, being consistent, promptly betrays them when the price is right). He further justifies how arms dealers sold to ‘the bad guys and the good guys’, saying that good and evil are ‘made up words’.

It is perhaps the backdrop on which this is painted - the odious inhabitants and casino-lovers of Cantonica – which makes this most jarring. How can you stare such inequality and greed in the eye and say that good and evil are made up words?

The Last Jedi seems to be attempting to reject this Christian worldview. And yet it can’t avoid it, because the franchise’s entire premise rests on the reality of good and evil being real. We root for the oppressed victims - the Resistance fighters – longing for them to triumph over ‘dark side’. We urge Kylo Ren to ‘turn’ from dark to light. From evil to good.

Why does our knowledge of good and evil resonate so deeply within us? Why do we know deep down that DJ is wrong? Could it be because we are made in the image of a transcendent God who is the author of all things good? In a world where truth is relativized, it is in Jesus that we find the reality we are true wired for. 

Lessons from The Matrix

Of course, we see other Christian worldview concepts throughout Star Wars. Self-sacrifice. Hope. The oppressed obtaining final (but as-yet-unseen) vindication against the wicked oppressors.

Even more so, these concepts are nonsensical in the worldview framework offered by pantheism or Buddhism or Western Secular Individualism.
Why sacrifice yourself? 
How do we even define ‘good’ and why should we want to fight for it? 
If all is in ‘balance’, then will evil ever be destroyed?

The reaction to The Last Jedi vividly shows what happens when you play with what is so written on our hearts. We should take a warning from The Matrix trilogy which lost the fulcrum of the ‘chosen Saviour’. Instead it embraced a secular/pantheistic hybrid, with a rapidly deteriorating trilogy ending in real disappointment for so many (I still remember how I felt leaving the cinema after watching Revolutions).

Our place in the Story

As we watch films, we are often being invited to see our place in the story. Are we a world-wearied Luke, or on a journey of self-discovery like Rey? When we find ourselves pondering our place in the story of our lives, perhaps we might echo Rey’s statement when in the cave on Ahch-To: “I need someone to show me my place in all this.”
The gospel tells us that God came to do this very thing. He didn’t write a message about himself in the sky, give individual trances about himself or send down a book of wisdom. He himself came. Jesus walked on this earth so that humans can know God come to be with us. He died a gruesome death by crucifixion, but three days later he physically rose again. And now he says – “I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with him, and he with me.”

The Christian worldview gives a consistent, comprehensive and satisfying explanation of where we came from, who we are, and what our place is in this world… But are we shaped and moulded by that worldview? Do we uncritically accept the worldviews presented in what we watch, listen to and think about? As we embrace Star Wars for its incredible story, let’s be prepared to identify and discuss what’s going on beneath the surface, because it might shape our reaction more than we realise.

Perhaps by playing with the formula, The Last Jedi has given us a helping hand in that direction.




Some articles which are excellent on Star Wars and Worldview:









Photo Credit J D Hancock (Flickr)

Wednesday, 29 June 2016

4 Reasons England vs Iceland shouldn't be replayed


Millions want us to replay it. 

'If only they'd known the despair it would cause' said Bob on 5Live.

Roy losing his job.
Grown men crying on the radio.
A nation shamed.

Gary phoned TalkSport and cried, 'If only the team had known the effect it would have on their country perhaps they'd have tried harder'.

Here are 4 reasons why some believe we should replay the game and my response:


1. 'The players didn't fully grasp the consequences of losing '


The shame. The embarrassment. Fans will be out of pocket. BBC/ITV will lose viewers. Our world ranking will drop. 

Come on UEFA,this could be catastrophic. Don't let a minnow like Iceland ruin things! 
Now we've lost and know all this,surely the players would try harder next time? 


We can't argue for a reply on this basis. 

The signs were there. We've performed poorly up until the game. And with hindsight it's not such a surprise. We've not progressed in Europe for years. 

The players did know - they've grown up watching us fail. They were petrified of losing and didn't put forward a positive case on the pitch to remain in the competition.

And yet the consequences will be short lived. In 2 years there'll be another manager. We'll recover. Let's take a deep breath and gain perspective. The Premier League will carry on,we'll negotiate some other games beyond Europe,and one day we'll come again. 

Furthermore,more English players should go and play in Europe. Our lack of understanding of the game there has led to problems. We don't know the footballing language and culture. Now we're out perhaps everyone may benefit from our team playing the way we know best suits us, which I believe will mutually benefit teams across the continent. 

2. 'Millions want it replayed '


How dare Iceland have the nerve to beat us? We'd go much further in the competition! Indeed before the game all the experts said England should win, surely they're right?

And so I bet if we held a petition we could get millions demanding a replay - there, surely we can't ignore that! Iceland only have a population of 330,000!

The thing is,we lost. I don't like it. But this is how it works. The rules were clear,the playing field level,the consequences of losing outlined. And we still lost.


3. 'Iceland are a pub team,we'd beat them 99 times out of 100'.


The problem is,if we replay this game,what precedent does that set? 
If you are the underdog,don't bother,because those who know best will demand a reply until he 'correct result' is achieved.

I honestly think the majority football world would be devastated. You know, places where corruption rules,betting lords have influence, and associations will annul results riding roughshod over the players.
 
We must respect the system we have, where a game that takes place in safety, players are paid enough to not need to throw games...and so on.

We can't change the rules because we don't like the result. 

This principle is more important than our exiting the European championships! We played the game,took a risk,and lost. But let's not undermine the rules,because that would be to do worse than lose in the first place.

4. 'Iceland,Slovakia,Russia and their negative methods'


I have often heard the complaint that teams have used dodgy tactics to win. Parking the bus. Not playing, just defending. If they would only play some football,have some ambition - then we might win, insinuated Roy.

The fact is, both teams tried to do what it took to win. Both sides bent the rules at times.And yet England made all sorts of errors. Like trying to play 4-3-3 with no in-form wide men in the squad. 

Perhaps most tellingly we failed to really understand Iceland (and Slovakia and Russia before) and assumed that because we wanted to play, we'd win in the end. 

I think we need to work harder at understanding the methods of other teams and address them at source. Then we can stop this talking across one another at press conferences and maybe even learn something from each other before we label teams negative and 'anti-football'.


Finally, we are still in Europe. Our teams will still employ players from all over the world. They are welcome. We're not about to 'send players home' because we're out of the Euros. There's an exciting future ahead....now let's enjoy the rest of the tournament!

Saturday, 5 September 2015

All it took was a story...


 
All it took was an image. A story.

For weeks we hear the statistics
 


3620 dead in 8 months. Amongst which would have been numerous 3 year olds.

But the headlines continued.
Our politician’s stance became more entrenched.

And then a story.
An image.
3 year old Aylan Kurdi, washed up on a beach.
And everything changes.

Don’t get me wrong, I believe, in the case of Aylan Kurdi, that this is a good thing. It has woken many up to the needs. The statistic back it up. The Bible does too – it always has:
"When a stranger resides with you in your land, you shall not wrong him. The stranger who resides with you shall be to you as one of your citizens; you shall love him as yourself, for you were strangers in the land of Egypt; I am the Lord your God" (Leviticus 19:33-34).

But is it always a good thing that a story changes everything?

I would argue no.

Take assisted suicide. Supporters will fling aside evidence and common sense and present a story of someone who took their life to avoid a terribly painful death for example here. And they do it because it works – it sways public opinion. And it risks swaying our lawmakers.

So what can we take from this? Here’s just three.
 

1. Embrace the power of story

Doesn’t this sudden change in mood seem strange? An overnight shift, reflected by the Daily Mail’s front page above.

And yet it isn’t strange.
 
We live in the age of the image. Of the story.
Narrative and stories hold great power.
 
And yet postmodernism doesn’t have a monopoly on stories. Christians believe THE greatest story ever told. God doesn’t present us with facts and figures. He presents us with a person, Jesus Christ, who lived the life we should have lived and died the death we should die. We can boldly present God’s story – lived out in the stories of our lives. But we mustn’t stop with an emotional story - we must also explain the truth and in many cases the evidence that lies behind it.

2. Beware the power of story

Our postmodern age says that just because something moves us emotionally it must be true.
Even if it displaces logic, or flies in the face of the facts.

But we know this isn’t always the case. One might suspect there will be a backlash soon against immigrants when the mood changes and we are perceived to have taken in ‘too many’.

So we need to soberly examine our emotions against the truth of scripture.

3. Mob rule...rules?

When there is media outcry, politician’s minds are changed.
First of all a couple of articles are written, or documentaries produced, which question what was previously taboo; then the prophets of our age, the stand up comics, take on the “new radical cause”, the soap operas introduce the subject favourably, the opinion polls tell us “what the people think”, social media kicks in and finally the politicians and judges catch up. Anyone who dares question the new establishment morality is sidelined, abused and mocked" George Robertson, Solas CPC
Where is God in this? What happens when mob rule threatens our freedoms like it threatens to with assisted suicide just next week?

And yet in the most profound miscarriage of justice ever, where mob rule condemned Jesus to death, God was supremely in control.

We can trust that he is in charge, even when mob rule prevails; when it seems good to us as in the case of Aylan Kurdi, and when it doesn’t.



Thursday, 21 May 2015

3 Things I Learnt From My Technology-Free Day



No email, TV, text messaging, social media…for 24 hours.

Most of you will have clicked here to see how long I lasted so I’ll tell you

10 minutes!

I turned over in bed and checked Facebook  - like I was on autopilot – and I couldn't help commenting on a really incendiary link someone had posted.

After that however, apart from a phone call to the hospital (I’m off with a bad back, see my previous post) the day went well.

So what did I learn from my day?

1.       I’m addicted to it


I constantly look at my phone.

Has this guy responded to my comment on Facebook (not yet)?
Has John replied to my email (come on, I sent it 15 minutes ago!)?
What’s the cricket score (depressing but I still want to know)?

I noticed some simple things on my day off:

Our bathroom echoes (I won’t elaborate)

I heard a woodpecker whilst waiting for Oz and Rob (who were being fashionable late to meet me)

I wondered what I did before my phone – perhaps I used those quiet moments to think, to pray, or to enjoy the silence – now I can fill every waking minute with interesting ‘noise’.

Technology addiction is growing fast; indeed it’s thought to be as strong as craving certain drugs and these 9 facts about social media are amazing.

This experiment has shown me that I am as at risk as anyone, and only by pulling back did I realise my vulnerability.

 

2.       I can’t avoid it


Almost everything I do now is related to my computer.

Be it communicating via email, writing a paper, reading the news or my blogs, using Logos bible tools, e-books….. whilst it has its dangers as I mention above, it is the reality of the world I live in.

And it raises the question
 

'How do I live well as a follower of Jesus in the midst of it all?'

How do I respond to the fact that the pace of my life seems to increase in line with the technology I have?

I think this is a profound challenge to get to grips with.
 
Many have written well on its uses e.g. prayer apps, churches and dangers e.g. idolatry and being a Christian in a digital future highlighting how technology is moulding our identity and its link to loneliness and depression amongst many other things.

I’m sure you have more answers than I have – but its answers we need.


3.       I love it


Many of the podcasts I listen to are funny, informative and I can listen when it best suits me.

Communicating with friends all over the world wherever I am be it in a field nearby or in a refugee camp is amazing. I wouldn't have known that the shaking at 2.43 this morning was an earthquake.

And so I want to embrace it.
I want to learn how to use it more effectively.

In my work with CMF I would love to explore using podcasts and videos (by 2018 79% of the online content consumed by 18-21 year olds will be through video or audio – not plain text!).

And as we seek to share the good news of Jesus - whilst nothing replaces real life on life, face to face discipleship - we have more opportunities than ever to get resources into the hands of people who need them most.

On reflection I have come up with 3 resolutions (you can check with me to see if I keep to them):

 

1.       Have one day a week away from technology


That means a rest from social media and emails for one day

2.       Check my emails just twice and day and never on my phone


This means I’m not feeling enslaved to responding immediately and actually will be much more time-efficient


3.       Do my best to be ‘in the present’ when in company, especially my family


This means I am more likely to listen, enjoy and consider the moment, giving my full attention to people rather than sharing it with someone else 2000 miles away.
 
In other words, no social media until I am genuinely not interfering with a face to face relationship.

 

I hope these resolutions aren’t legalistic but encourage me to be a better steward of what God has given me and to rely on Him to guide me in this

I might even try another ‘fasting day’ - and see if I can last longer than 10 minutes!

 
What do you think? Any tips on how to handle technology?


Image: Shutterstock

 

Monday, 11 August 2014

Frozen – why we shouldn’t just Let It Go


In the months since Frozen was released I have not heard one person sound a cautionary note. Not one.

In fact, most people I know love it. Their kids love it.

So what I am about to say means I am either mad, or fast becoming the odd one out. This may put me at serious odds with my best friends.

There are many great themes in this movie, of family values and even, some argue, a Christian allegory of self-sacrificing love.

Despite not having watched the film, my 5 and 3 year old often belt out the signature tune ‘Let it Go’ from the top of their lungs. It sounds like a catchy tune.

It sounds, well, harmless.

Right?

Let’s take a look at some of the lyrics:

“It's time to see what I can do
To test the limits and break through
No right, no wrong, no rules for me I'm free!

Let it go, let it go
I am one with the wind and sky
Let it go, let it go
You'll never see me cry!

Here I stand
And here I'll stay
Let the storm rage on!

My power flurries through the air into the ground
My soul is spiralling in frozen fractals all around”
Writer(s): Kristen Anderson-Lopez, Emanuel Kiriakou, Robert J. Lopez
Copyright: Wonderland Music Company Inc., Walt Disney Music Company

Gods of our Culture


In the words above, we see 3 gods of our culture espoused:

1) Autonomy above all

‘No right, no wrong, no rules for me I’m free’.

Our secular culture indoctrinates us and our kids to believe that my autonomy is the most important and valuable thing I can seek.

Indeed, it is more important than my responsibilities if it means I find satisfaction, to ‘be who I am’, free of people suppressing my inner power and creativity.

This is the creed of our culture.

We see it all around us.

And we see it in this cute kid’s movie and theme tune that my 3 year old sings.

The Bible on the other hand teaches us that responsibility is more important. Our actions will always impact others, and rather than looking to our own needs, we can teach our kids to put the needs of others first (Philippians 2:4).


2) New Age ideas

I am one with the wind and sky’.

This is an increasingly popular belief; that humans are co-creators, God-like, inherently good and one and the same with creation. The language of the New Age is all over Frozen – ‘energy’, ‘oneness’, ‘harmony’, ‘potential’, ‘cleansing’ and ‘consciousness’.

By contrast, the Bible says we are created beings made in God’s image made to glorify him and enjoy his creation rather than be mastered by it (Genesis 1:26-27; 2:15; Isaiah 44:24).

3) You are powerful

My power flurries through the air’

The message ‘you are powerful’ screams at us through TV adverts. ‘Impossible Is Nothing’, ‘Just Do It’, ‘We Do It Your Way’, ‘Because I’m Worth It’, ‘Power For Your Control’ etc etc (extra points if you can remember which product these match to*).

Of course, we need to teach our kids that yes, they are powerful. That they can do damage unless they learn to be responsible with their words and possessions.

But our culture takes this too far. We are telling our kids they can do anything - the reality is we are finite human beings who need to depend on the power of our creator and sustainer rather than elevate ourselves to the position of God himself.

Big eyes, small waists


So in addition to the women with impossibly large eyes, small waists and perfect make-up which distorts my daughters view of how she should look, this film gives us a song that captures a world-view advocated by Frozen which should concern Christians.


It’s not working


These cultural creeds are not harmless.

They are at the centre of the degradation of our culture, the undermining of marriage and stable families, broken friendships, shattered dreams.

Our kids need to know it’s not all cute and cuddly and happily ever after, but that it’s a worldview leads away from Jesus to elevate themselves as their own god.

And it’s not working.

I’m not an advocate of making our kids into social misfits who don’t fit in.

What I am saying is that we need discernment.

We need to have our eyes open to the propaganda all around us churned out by our cultural leaders (i.e. the media, advertisers and filmmakers) who want our kids to believe something.

So how can we do this? Here’s some ideas

1) Ask yourself questions


Such as:

What messages does this film/song want me and my kids to believe?

What truth do I see in the Bible that confronts these messages?

Am I keeping my edge, believing that I am meant to live as if my hope is in God rather than in all that our culture hopes for?

2) Ask your kids questions


Such as:

What do the words of the song mean?

Should we indulge our appetites and passions without regard for right and wrong as Elsa says?

What are the consequences of Elsa’s decisions for herself? For others?

What does the God have to say about this?
To do this we need to watch these films (preferably before they watch it and then with them).
We need to be ready to help explain what it is they are seeing, both the good parts (undoubtedly there are some good messages in this film) as well as the more worrying.

3) Point them to Christ


And we need to point them to Christ – the one who is all powerful, the One who created us for relationship with Him, and the One who does set rules of right and wrong for our benefit and happiness. Who calls us to give it all to Him, rather than let it go.

Don’t be duped


Let’s face it, our culture’s message to ‘Let it Go’ just isn’t working.

So let’s not let our kids be duped into thinking it is - just because their screen hero believes and sings it.

After all, our kids will only be duped if we are. 


*Adidas, Nike, Burger King, L’Oreal, Alfa Romea



Image credit Elsa from Frozen © Walt Disney
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Tuesday, 29 July 2014

Good advice: 4 things I learnt from a single mum with 4 kids




Are there conversations from years ago that you can recall even now?

What is it about them that makes them stand out?

15 years ago I was and about to go to medical school. One Sunday at church I was stopped by a lady. After a high flying academic career she was then bringing up 4 children under 5 by herself after losing her husband in tragic circumstances.

I remember her looking me in the eye and saying:

“John, when you go to medical school, will you commit to spending as much time studying the Bible as you do studying medicine? Your medicine is important. But being a doctor to souls will be just as important for you. Will you do that?”

I still remember it to this day. Word for word.

I confess that I didn’t do a great job. Yes I worked hard at uni, but I didn’t match it with Bible study. Or anyway near.

Perhaps the irony is that today I split my time 50:50 between my medical work and my church work – this was not pre-planned, but I know in God’s sense of humour that perhaps this was more a prophecy than simple advice!

So what has this taught me about giving advice?

1)      Speak boldly into people’s lives


I think about what this lady said to me often. I know that God was using her to speak to me about something, and it’s had a profound impact on me and the way I see life.

And we can do the same.
Do we believe that a single sentence from our mouth can change the course of history, even the course of eternity for someone we may speak to today?
That is what God’s Word does.
We must be ready to be bold. To risk rejection. To risk ‘getting it wrong’.
Because when it is right, God can use you to change someone’s story.


2)      Believe God can use you single mums


Ok, so I confess this subheading is an attention-grabber. Of course God can use us all - single, married, parents or otherwise.

The point is, you may feel that you are not much use in God’s kingdom.

Perhaps you used to feel that but now you feel you’re tied up - maybe with 4 kids, or family responsibilities, or illness. You feel out of the front line, that your day has gone. Or perhaps it’s yet to come in the first place!

But see how God used this lady in my life!? She didn’t resign herself to insignificance. She faithfully did what God gave her to do.

So trust God can use you.

He will probably use you more significantly in difficult times than when you feel you’re ideally positioned to be used!

3)      Advice: a dish best served face to face


Where do you get advice from? We seem to read or listen to hundreds of pieces of advice a day via blogs, articles, Twitter feeds, text messages or Facebook posts. But how much do we remember?

Of course, we can remember quite a bit. And of course God can speak to us via a computer.

But 15 years on I can still remember where we were and how I was feeling. I remember this lady looking me in the eye. I remember feeling a bit daunted. I can feel it, even now.

When we communicate via computers we can forget that people are spiritual beings. Consequently we can be more flippant, critical and freer with our words, not realising we are having an effect on the eternal destinies of those we communicate with.

So let me encourage you, when you have a word to speak into someone’s life, do it face to face if you can.

4)      Say thank you


At a wedding recently I saw this lady for the first time in at least 7 years.

As I told her about what I’m up to, I noted my eyes were filling with tears. I was understanding the effect of her words in my life as I spoke.

The impact she has had on me has been immeasurable. I am so thankful that she stepped out in faith and spoke those words to me all those years ago.

And I had the privilege of being able to encourage her.

With words that sum up what I still feel today:

‘Thank you’.


How about you?

What have you learnt from giving/receiving advice?




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