In many churches I have been involved in, leaders
have already upped and left. They’re not there anymore.
Not that they all physically drift.
Many are still sitting there, week after week. But
in their heads they’re gone.
They were looking for challenge, for something
worth giving their lives to. But they've concluded that they won’t find it in
the church.
So they settle into being a volunteer, giving their creativity,
passion and drive to something else – like their job, or football team, or
hobbies.
Volunteers or leaders?
Why is this happening? Is it because deep down as
church leaders what we REALLY want is volunteers who execute our own vision and
keep the church machine running? To lead home-groups? To head up a new project
that the elders have decided would be a good idea?
When people stop behaving like volunteers it gets
risky. ‘They might try something and fail’ we can say. Or, 'They have too
many ideas'. Or, 'They're too difficult to manage'. We may even feel threatened by
their potential.
Grow and release leaders
In a
recent article Mike Breen said this: ‘A
volunteer is someone who executes someone else’s vision. A leader is someone
with a vision of his or her own’
So the challenge is: are we raising volunteers, or
leaders? Do we squash creativity and vision from our congregations, or do we
identify, equip and release them as leaders to their missional frontline?
Of course, a centralized vision is powerful,
and is by no means wrong. My church's vision is big, exciting, faith-stretching.
We are seeking to:
GROW so that we can effectively
EQUIP and release disciple leaders to lead in the cracks of society that God has placed them in order to
IMPACT our culture for the sake of Christ
EQUIP and release disciple leaders to lead in the cracks of society that God has placed them in order to
IMPACT our culture for the sake of Christ
We are in this together. We are committed to pray,
give and serve in order to see this vision come to fruition. And yet it allows
the freedom and permission for leaders to grow and be released. We can do this
by being…
…a leader who is first
and foremost a disciple …
Real leaders don’t demand that volunteers follow them. They don’t have
to. Leadership isn’t taught but caught. Instead they live as disciples and
through their integrity demonstrate a life worthy of imitating. Just like Jesus
did.
…who releases ‘un-lead’ leaders…
Real leaders teach people to stop looking to them to tell them what to
do. Of course, we teach submission to authority, an essential part of being a
leader. This is not a call for loose cannons. But the overall vision of the
church needs to be able to accommodate people who have passion and vision which
is tested and agreed on being from God.
…equipping them for their
frontlines…
Real leaders equip people for works of service where
they spend their time. The city will be impacted when ordinary Christians in
the cracks of society live out their faith rather than tying them up in the
church building with a vision they are not passionate about in the first place.
…giving them permission
to try (and maybe fail)
Real leaders believe we’re not doing something worthwhile
if it doesn’t involve risk. And yet
risk-aversion (or being overly British) means that we prevent people from
getting anywhere near failure.
I am convinced that the church should be at the forefront of releasing creative, gospel-obsessed, passionate leaders who are given permission to try - and even better - to try and fail and then go again.
My failures
This year my family has been given space to ‘risk’
starting a missional community. We’ve gone for it. By many
standards we have ‘failed’. Am I glad we went for it? You bet I am. It’s now no longer
theory. I have grown. My pride has been punctured (because when we started this
was the RIGHT way to do things!). Now I’m tasting it, and I am so grateful for
the opportunity to risk time, reputation and finance to see the Kingdom
advance.
So will we be leaders who manage risk, constrain people to be part of
OUR vision and develop obedient volunteers? And in so doing, find leaders are long gone?
Or will they be gone because they have been commissioned to risk
outside the church’s four walls?
Will we ask leaders questions to see them become society-impacting,
disciple-multiplying leaders?
Questions like these:
What is God saying to you?
What are you going to do about it?
How can we pray for you, resource you and encourage you in your
God-given vision?
What do you think? Is this something you can relate to?
This is something I can very much relate to.
ReplyDeleteIt is interesting that someone wrote of Richard Taylor, founder of Victory Church, Cwmbran, "He is a success because he is not afraid of failure."
Pride can hold us back, and fear of failure can paralyze us, but the lesson you have learned has strengthened and equipped you for new vision, new hope - and should it fail - get up and go again.
I would add that sometimes, what appears to be failure at first, can turn into a huge success. We only have to look at the Cross, which looked like the worst ever failure to those who witnessed the crucifixion - yet look what God achieved through that 'failure'!!! The greatest miracle the world has ever, or will ever witness.
Our God is able, when our vision is given by Him. And it is my belief that anyone passionate about spreading His Gospel, and longing for many other Gospel spreading leaders, will never fail. The fields are white unto harvest, but the labourers are few, even within many of the churches.
God bless you in your work. I will pray for you. I am growing old now, but I still have a passion for lost souls, and I won't give up in reaching out until Jesus calls me home.
Thank you Marion for your encouragement, may God bless you too, it is an inspiration to read of your faith and trust in the Lord
ReplyDeleteGreat post John, so many times people get buried under the burden of volunteering just to volunteer that the real purpose and fire is snuffed out. Many times those that lead are leading for status or popularity rather than heart. We are in a society where true disciples are scared to shine and therefore would rather hide in sheeps clothing rather than lead the course of change.
ReplyDeleteThanks secondiron, you are right, and as a leader I must test my motives often too that they are God honouring rather than self-promoting
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